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Sarper Güven from 90 Day Fiancé may have a humorous and engaging personality, but he may not be the best husband material. Sarper first met Shekinah Garner in Istanbul, Turkey, after they matched on a dating app. Their first meeting went well, but Sarper didn’t anticipate their relationship progressing further than a one-night stand. However, their casual encounter evolved into a serious, committed relationship. Sarper and Shekinah decided to showcase their unique love story in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 5, where they appeared overly focused on their physical appearances.
Sarper, a personal trainer, wanted Shekinah to maintain a specific weight and wear outfits he preferred. In one scene, he brought out a scale to measure Shekinah’s weight, even though she was hesitant. At the same time, Shekinah tried to control Sarper by asking him to stop training female clients and acknowledge their relationship on social media. Despite their seeming lack of compatibility, the couple eventually got engaged in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6. Shekinah filed for Sarper’s K-1 visa, and he moved from Turkey to the United States.
Sarper’s Sexist Bragging Is A Red Flag
Sarper Has Little Regard For Shekinah
Sarper and Shekinah are currently featured in 90 Day Fiancé season 11, and their relationship is deteriorating. They are now questioning whether they want to marry each other. Sarper claims to have left his “bad boy” past behind and become a kind gentleman, but his actions towards Shekinah show otherwise. Despite claiming to love her, Sarper lacks respect for Shekinah. He seems to use emotional manipulation to keep her in his life, treating her as a trophy. Sarper frequently boasts about his past of being intimate with 2500 women, which is concerning to Shekinah and viewers alike.
Recently, Sarper met Shekinah’s family intending to make a good impression on them. While he apologized for his past aggressive behavior towards Shekinah, his apology seemed insincere.
Sarper shouldn’t have tried to justify his actions by claiming that all men are feisty, and he is just a tough man. Shekinah’s sisters were willing to give him a chance but took his words with a grain of salt. They may refuse to welcome him into their family if he doesn’t change his “bad boy” behavior. Shekinah’s sisters are strong-willed women who won’t be swayed by Sarper’s smooth talking.
Play VideoUnderstandably, Sarper has been feeling lonely since moving to the United States. He can’t maintain the same routine he had in Turkey and doesn’t have a driving license, which leads to feelings of depression. However, it’s wrong for him to take out his frustration on Shekinah. Blaming Shekinah for their relationship problems while ignoring his disrespectful behavior towards her is unjust. Sarper doesn’t appear happy in America and frequently mentions how easy it would be for him to end their relationship and return to his home country.
Sarper Says She’ll “Cry For Years” If He Leaves
Sarper Refuses To Accept His Mistakes
In a recent episode of 90 Day Fiancé season 11, Sarper and Shekinah discussed their problems. She mentioned that he was behaving recklessly in their relationship. Instead of acknowledging his mistake, Sarper told Shekinah, “if we break up, you will cry for years for me. I know you. I am the most perfect match for you.” Sarper refuses to admit his faults, and Shekinah’s family has noticed that. It appears the 90 Day Fiancé cast member may not be ready to commit as a husband and is quick to consider leaving at the first sign of difficulty.
