A Different Kind of Leading Man
Ben Hollingsworth is best known to audiences around the world as the charming, impulsive, and complicated Dan Brady in Netflix’s hit series Virgin River. On screen, he’s often caught in the web of emotional turmoil and dramatic tension, but off screen, the Canadian actor lives a far more grounded and heartwarming reality. At the center of that life is his wife, Nila Myers — a woman who has not only captured his heart but shaped the calm and joy behind the scenes of his Hollywood journey.
Their love story may not play out in front of cameras, but it has all the elements of a classic romance: serendipity, growth, family, and unwavering devotion. As Virgin River continues to thrive, fans have become more curious about the real lives of its stars — and in Ben’s case, the truth is just as endearing as any scripted love.
From Rising Actor to Family Man
Before becoming a familiar face on Netflix, Ben Hollingsworth was steadily building his acting résumé in shows like Code Black and Suits. But it was in 2012 that his life changed in a more personal way — that’s when he met Nila Myers, a lingerie designer and bar method instructor based in California.
Nila wasn’t part of the entertainment industry, but she brought her own creative flair and strong sense of identity to their relationship. Their connection was instant and deep, grounded in shared values and a sense of mutual admiration. After dating for several years, Ben and Nila got engaged and married in 2012.
In interviews, Ben has often described Nila as his rock — someone who not only supports his career but also helps him stay centered amidst the chaos of the acting world. Their bond is one of genuine partnership, with Ben often crediting Nila for giving him the strength to be both a better actor and a better man.
Parenthood: The Role of a Lifetime
Together, Ben and Nila have built a beautiful family. They are parents to three children — two sons and a daughter — and the experience of fatherhood has clearly transformed the actor in profound ways. He frequently shares glimpses of family life on Instagram, posting adorable photos of weekend adventures, birthday parties, or simply quiet mornings at home.
Though Ben plays complicated roles on screen, he radiates simplicity and joy in his real-life role as a dad. He has spoken candidly about the balance between work and home life, particularly when filming long seasons of Virgin River far from his family. He makes a point of being present, cherishing milestones, and prioritizing family dinners and bedtime routines whenever possible.
“Being a father changes everything,” Ben once wrote in a social media post. “It gives you purpose in a completely new way. I act because I love it — but I live for my family.”
A Strong and Private Marriage
While many Hollywood couples live their lives in the spotlight, Ben and Nila have intentionally kept much of their marriage private. That’s not because they’re hiding anything, but because they value the intimacy and safety of a life off-camera. Still, when they do share moments publicly, they exude warmth, humor, and a sense of deep connection that fans find both relatable and admirable.
Nila continues to work in her own creative fields and is an advocate for wellness, women’s health, and mindful parenting. Together, they represent a partnership that’s not just romantic but also rooted in mutual respect and independence.
How Their Relationship Inspires Fans
In a world where celebrity relationships often crash under the weight of fame, Ben and Nila Hollingsworth’s story is refreshingly grounded. Their ability to thrive as individuals while growing together as a couple has resonated with fans who are looking for real love stories beyond scripted drama.
As Virgin River fans continue to invest in Jack and Mel’s fictional romance, many also find themselves inspired by the real-life love story of Ben and Nila. It’s a reminder that true connection doesn’t always involve dramatic twists — sometimes, it’s about choosing each other every day, building a home filled with laughter, and standing side by side through all of life’s seasons.
Looking Ahead
With Virgin River renewed for more seasons and Ben’s star rising even higher, his fans are eager to see what’s next — both on screen and off. And while Brady’s journey may be filled with storms, Ben Hollingsworth’s real-life love story offers a rare kind of peace: a home built on love, partnership, and the quiet, steady strength of family.
As he continues to navigate fame and family life, one thing is certain — Ben isn’t just a beloved actor. He’s also a devoted husband and father, writing his own kind of love story every day.
