Fans of Chicago P.D. have long speculated about the chemistry between Jesse Lee Soffer and Tracy Spiridakos, both on and off-screen. As the actors behind one of the show’s most beloved couples—Detective Jay Halstead and Detective Hailey Upton—their undeniable connection has sparked rumors about a possible real-life romance. But are they actually dating, or is it all just fan speculation? Here’s what we know.
On-Screen Chemistry vs. Real-Life Friendship
Soffer and Spiridakos brought Jay and Hailey’s relationship (dubbed “Upstead” by fans) to life with such authenticity that many assumed their connection extended beyond the cameras. Their characters went from trusted partners to a romantic couple, even tying the knot in Season 9 of Chicago P.D.. Given how convincing their performances were, it’s no surprise that fans began wondering if their bond was more than just acting.
However, despite the speculation, there has been no confirmation that Soffer and Spiridakos have ever dated in real life. In interviews, they’ve spoken highly of each other, praising their work dynamic and strong friendship. Spiridakos has called Soffer an “amazing scene partner,” while Soffer has equally expressed admiration for her talent and professionalism.
Past Relationships and Dating History
Jesse Lee Soffer has previously been linked to a few Chicago P.D. co-stars, most notably Sophia Bush (who played Erin Lindsay) during their time together on the show. Their relationship lasted for about a year before they parted ways in 2015. He was also briefly linked to Chicago Med actress Torrey DeVitto. As for Tracy Spiridakos, she has kept her dating life relatively private. She was engaged to actor Jon Cor in the past, but there have been no public confirmations of new relationships since then.
Are They Dating Now?
Despite fans’ hopes for a real-life Upstead romance, there is no solid evidence that Soffer and Spiridakos are dating. Both actors appear to be single and focused on their careers. Soffer exited Chicago P.D. in Season 10 but has since taken on new projects, while Spiridakos announced her departure from the series in Season 11. While their friendship remains strong, it seems their relationship is purely platonic. That hasn’t stopped fans from continuing to ship them, but unless either actor confirms otherwise, it’s safe to say they’re just great friends and former co-stars who share a deep mutual respect.
Final Verdict
Jesse Lee Soffer and Tracy Spiridakos have an undeniable connection, but all signs point to them being nothing more than close colleagues. Their ability to portray such a compelling romance on Chicago P.D. is a testament to their acting skills and friendship. While fans may continue to hope for an off-screen love story, for now, it appears that their relationship remains strictly professional.
