Everybody Loves Raymond was one of the best sitcoms of the ’90s and early 2000s. It’s Seinfeld meets Home Improvement, with some of the most over-the-top and self-centered characters, all of whom are related, and many who live under the same roof. The Barones aren’t exactly the most likable people in the world. Frank (Peter Boyle) is angry and Marie (Doris Roberts) is overbearing. The titular star, Raymond (Ray Romano), has lived a coddled life that’s turned him into a dolt who thinks of himself first. One member of the family isn’t as bad as the others. Older brother Robert (Brad Garrett) is the suffering one, an odd duck who gets some of the biggest laughs for his eccentricities. He’s also the only one in the family who is easy to like most of the time. He’s not without his faults, but Robert Barone is the heart and soul of Everybody Loves Raymond.
‘Everybody Loves Raymond’s Robert Barone Is Easy to Love
While the Barones can be insufferable (though redeemable enough to still be likable beyond the laughs) it’s Robert who is so easy to connect to. That’s not to say that another likable character in Debra (Patricia Heaton) doesn’t get our sympathies. She’s put upon as the wife who has to deal with these people, but she did choose to marry into this family. Robert can’t help it; he was born into it, and it affects him deeply.
Robert might be a giant of a man, but inside, he’s still an unnoticed kid. His father is an angry man who doesn’t dole out emotional support, and his mother has always given more attention to Ray, the baby of the family. The title of the show comes from Robert’s frustrations at how much Ray gets away with. “Everybody loves Raymond,” he sighs. While Ray can do no wrong (though he often does), what Robert does right doesn’t get rewarded. Instead, he’s the butt of jokes, a guy made fun of for his quirks. It’s no wonder why he’s so weird and filled with self-doubt. No one born into that family could come out of the experience unscathed.
Robert Barone Has the Most Heart in ‘Everybody Loves Raymond’
Robert might get ignored and only noticed to be mocked, but he doesn’t give up. It’s not just his upbringing in a dysfunctional family that gave him the short end of the stick. Robert’s adult life isn’t so great, either. Early on in Everybody Loves Raymond’s run, Robert is a single man, struggling with a divorce that has wrecked him and forced him back home to live with his parents. Still, Robert trudges on. He’s a cop dedicated to protecting people. No one else in the Barones is putting someone else first… unless it’s Marie with her blind love for Raymond.
Robert never gives up. He puts himself out in the world, even if he gets shot down. One episode has Robert falling for a scam in which he gives away so much money to a photographer promising to make him a model. It’s funny that he could fall for it, but we want to hug him because of it. He’s so gullible because he’s that desperate to be noticed. He treats Ray’s kids like his own, happy to go out with them. You can see a great dad in the making. He’s so good with the kids that Ray gets jealous, his anger leading to him making fun of Robert for not having kids of his own. It’s incredibly harsh, but it makes us love Robert more. He’s such a lonely man, yet here he is, reaching out to his niece and nephews, thinking of them first, only to get crapped on for it.
Ray Romano as Raymond Barrone looking at a person offscreen in an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond
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Romano starred as the titular character in the comedy series for almost a decade.
Robert struggles with loneliness so much that perhaps Everybody Loves Raymond’s most heartbreaking scene has him confessing to Marie that he’s going to be alone forever. When Robert finally finds the love of his life in Amy (Monica Horan), we cheer for him. He adores Amy, treating her like a queen and not a burden. Whenever he messes up with her, it’s because he doesn’t think he’s good enough. The happy moments lead to one of the most painful ones, when Robert goes to Amy’s parents, Hank (Fred Willard) and Pat (Georgia Engle), to ask for their permission to marry their daughter. It’s kind of him to believe in that formality, but we watch him get crushed when Hank and Pat say no. Every time he gets knocked down, we get more attached to him, and every time he gets back up, we love him more. Before Everybody Loves Raymond ends, Robert and Amy get married and live happily ever after.
