TV shows about death are not easy to digest because death itself is uncomfortable. But as Ghosts delicately uses these themes to bring life to characters destined to live out eternity together, this episode is proof it needs to tackle more overarching themes of grief and loss.
This season has been a hodge-podge of frivolous relationships that some might argue take away from the show’s overall direction. But “Holes Are Bad” sets itself apart thanks to the full-bodied writing that elicits real emotions from its cast and audience. Hetty is a beloved character and for her to be someone all-powerful in the house, yet alone at the end of her life, is a tragic misstep on our collective societal norms. Her not knowing how to call out for help with the phone speaks to a deeper conversation that we don’t give enough help and resources to those who need it most.
Ghosts, most responsibly and sensitively, tackled the subject of suicide with enough forcefulness to increase awareness, especially with its younger audience.
It doesn’t make suicide simply a dramatic motivation for Hetty’s growth. Instead, there is a layered and empathetic portrayal evident in the character and those who love her, letting the series go beyond shame and grief. With the series and the Woodstone matriarch’s final moments raising awareness of the complexities behind such decisions, it’s important to recognize these things are not black and white. Ghosts’ latest episode offers a strong message that even the strongest are allowed to feel vulnerable. Through Hetty’s struggles, the series effectively validates our own emotions and sentiments to explore cultural nuances for healthy, open conversations that let viewers know there is support available.
Ghosts airs Thursdays at 8:30 p.m. EST on CBS.
If you or someone you know is experiencing mental health distress or suicide ideation, reach out 24/7 by dialing or texting the Suicide Crisis Hotline at 9-8-8 or using chat services at suicidepreventionlifeline.org to connect to a trained crisis counselor.
