Hardin Scott and Tessa Young have never stayed the same for long. From reckless beginnings to emotionally scarred adulthood, their journey in After and After Everything is a study in transformation. But the real debate dividing fans isn’t about whether they belong together — it’s this:
Which version of Hardin and Tessa do you love more — the past, or the present?
Hardin Scott — Then: Chaos in Human Form

The Hardin we first met was volatile, impulsive, and fueled by unresolved trauma. He loved fiercely but destructively. Anger came first, honesty came last. This version of Hardin thrived on intensity — fights, makeups, emotional extremes.
He wasn’t safe.
But he was unforgettable.
Hardin Scott — Now: Control, Guilt, and Growth
The present-day Hardin is quieter. More self-aware. Carrying regret instead of rage. He’s learned that love doesn’t survive without accountability — and that apologies don’t mean much without change.
Some fans miss the fire.
Others see a man finally worthy of love.
Tessa Young — Then: Innocence and Idealism
Early Tessa believed in rules, structure, and doing everything “right.” Love was supposed to be logical, kind, and safe. When she fell for Hardin, it shattered her expectations — and her certainty.
She loved with hope.
And paid for it with heartbreak.
Tessa Young — Now: Strength Earned the Hard Way
Today’s Tessa is grounded, independent, and emotionally guarded. She’s no longer chasing love at the expense of herself. Experience has replaced innocence, and boundaries have replaced blind faith.
She doesn’t need Hardin.
She chooses him — or doesn’t.
Then vs. Now — The Emotional Divide
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Past Hardin & Tessa: Passion, chaos, obsession, emotional risk.
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Present Hardin & Tessa: Growth, restraint, realism, self-respect.
One version burns fast.
The other survives.
The Question That Defines the Fandom
Do you prefer the raw, messy love that made everything feel electric — or the mature, hard-earned connection that came after the damage?
Were Hardin and Tessa better when they were breaking each other…
or when they learned how not to?