Throughout Family Matters, viewers watched Steve Urkel pine endlessly for Laura Winslow — only for her to ignore him season after season. Meanwhile, Myra Monkhouse adored Steve exactly as he was. So the question remains: Who truly deserved Steve’s love?
Laura: The Classic Love Interest
Laura Winslow was Steve’s lifelong crush. Over time, she began to see past the suspenders and snorting laughter, falling for his alter ego, Stefan, before finally loving Steve for who he truly was.
Myra: The Loyal Sweetheart
Myra loved Steve unconditionally from the beginning — awkwardness and all. She saw the genius behind the glasses and never once asked him to change. Her devotion won fans over, making her a strong candidate for Urkel’s heart.
Fans Still Debate
To this day, fans are divided. Some believe Laura only loved Steve after he changed, while others argue she was the endgame all along. Myra’s tragic on-screen departure (and the real-life passing of actress Michelle Thomas) added emotional weight to her legacy.
Final Verdict?
Urkel married Laura in the finale — but for many, Myra will always be the one who truly loved him first.
