Hi everyone, I wanted to take a moment to share something deeply personal with all of you. For a long time, I’ve been thinking about how important it is to live authentically, and I realized it was time to speak my truth: I am non-binary. Sharing this with the world is both terrifying and liberating, but I hope that by being honest, I can help even one person feel less alone.
Growing up, representation mattered so much to me. I remember watching celebrities and public figures come out as non-binary, queer, or differently-identified, and thinking, “Oh my God, this is so cool. I see myself in you.” Those moments were small beacons of light in what often felt like a confusing and lonely journey. Seeing someone else live openly and authentically gave me hope that I could do the same someday. And now, I want to be that beacon for others, just as those people were for me.
Being Missy on Young Sheldon has been an incredible journey. I’ve had the privilege of stepping into the shoes of a character who, in her own way, navigates the challenges of childhood, family, and self-expression. I never imagined that my work could reach millions of people and touch their lives in ways I couldn’t have anticipated. And now, stepping into my own truth outside of the character, I hope it sends an even stronger message: that it’s okay to be yourself, no matter how young or uncertain you feel.
Coming out publicly is never an easy decision, especially at 16. There’s fear of judgment, of misunderstanding, and of not being accepted. But I’ve realized that hiding who I am doesn’t protect me—it only makes me feel smaller. Embracing my identity has given me courage, clarity, and a sense of freedom I can’t fully put into words. It’s like finally breathing after holding my breath for years.
I want young people everywhere to know this: seeing someone live their truth can be life-changing. Representation matters. Your identity is valid, and you deserve to be seen, heard, and celebrated for exactly who you are. If my story can help even one person feel understood, supported, or inspired, then sharing it is worth every ounce of vulnerability it takes.
To everyone who has ever felt unseen, I see you. And to everyone just beginning to explore who they are, I hope my journey shows that you don’t have to navigate it alone. Living authentically is a gift, not just for yourself, but for everyone who looks to you and finds hope in your courage.
Thank you for letting me share my story. I am proud to be non-binary, proud to be Missy, and most of all, proud to be me.
