One of the lesser-known stories surrounding the Emmys involves Matthew Perry and his 2000 nomination for Friends.
That year, Perry was listed in the prestigious Leading Actor (Comedy) category, but, to his surprise, he had no idea about it. The reason? Perry and his Friends co-stars had made a pact: none of them would submit themselves for the Leading Actor or Actress categories. They had unanimously agreed to always be considered in the Supporting Actor/Actress categories, highlighting their bond as an ensemble cast.
When Perry found out about the nomination, he immediately reached out to the Television Academy to have his name withdrawn. He was adamant about honoring the agreement with his fellow cast members, even if it meant sacrificing his chance at winning an Emmy in the more competitive leading actor category. Perry’s commitment was so strong that he told the Academy he would prefer not to be nominated at all if it meant betraying his friends and co-stars.
Although being in the Leading Actor category might have given Perry a better shot at an Emmy, he ultimately chose to prioritize his friendship and integrity. Lisa Kasteler, Perry’s publicist at the time, acknowledged the mix-up, stating, “It is very important to Matthew and to me that the correct message be sent to his co-stars and the Friends audience, that he considers himself part of the ensemble. We publicists made the mistake and we apologize to both Matthew and the Academy.”
This little-known act of loyalty exemplified Perry’s deep commitment to his Friends castmates, further cementing the tight bond that existed behind the scenes of one of television’s most beloved shows. In an industry often defined by individual accolades, Perry’s decision to choose friendship over personal recognition is a testament to his character.
