While the women of Chicago P.D. are known for their fierce determination, courage under pressure, and unshakable loyalty to the Intelligence Unit, off-screen they lead equally captivating lives filled with love, family, and real-world balance. From long-term marriages to low-profile romances, the leading ladies of the hit NBC drama have found ways to nurture meaningful relationships far away from the flashing sirens of the 21st District.
Marina Squerciati (Kim Burgess)
As Officer Kim Burgess, Marina Squerciati has endured heartbreak, danger, and emotional upheaval on Chicago P.D.. But in real life, Squerciati’s love story is far more grounded. She is married to Eli Kay-Oliphant, a successful attorney based in Chicago. The couple reportedly met during their college years at Northwestern University, and their relationship has remained strong through the years. Together, they have a daughter, born in 2017, though Squerciati keeps her family life largely private. Fans adore how the actress seamlessly balances her demanding TV schedule with motherhood — something Burgess herself might admire.
Tracy Spiridakos (Hailey Upton)
Tracy Spiridakos, who portrays Detective Hailey Upton, has become a fan favorite thanks to her chemistry with Jesse Lee Soffer (who played Jay Halstead). Their on-screen romance was so convincing that many fans wondered if it extended beyond the script. Though the two shared a close friendship off-screen, Spiridakos has kept her romantic life away from public attention since their rumored connection ended. Previously, she was engaged to actor Jon Cor (of Shadowhunters fame), but the engagement was called off years ago. These days, Spiridakos focuses on her work, travel, and animal advocacy — embodying a quiet strength similar to her on-screen counterpart.
Amy Morton (Trudy Platt)
As the no-nonsense Desk Sergeant Trudy Platt, Amy Morton is the heart and humor of Chicago P.D.. Away from the precinct, Morton has enjoyed a long marriage to Rob Milburn, a respected sound designer and composer for theater. The two share a deep artistic connection rooted in Chicago’s thriving stage scene, where Morton built her award-winning career before joining television. Their partnership, both creative and personal, remains one of stability and mutual respect — something Platt herself would surely approve of.
Lisseth Chavez (Vanessa Rojas)
Though Lisseth Chavez’s time on Chicago P.D. was brief, her character Vanessa Rojas left a lasting mark. In real life, Chavez has been linked to a few names in the entertainment industry but keeps her dating life under wraps. Since leaving the show, she has starred in DC’s Legends of Tomorrow and continues to focus on expanding her acting portfolio rather than her public profile.
Behind the badges and bulletproof vests, these talented actresses remind us that strength comes in many forms — from chasing down criminals to nurturing relationships built on trust and love. Whether fiercely private or occasionally public, the leading ladies of Chicago P.D. live their real lives with the same grace and resilience they bring to every gripping episode.
