
Throughout its run, the show never explored one major narrative element for Frank: romance. After the death of his wife, Frank never had a long-term relationship. In an interview with TV Insider, showrunner Kevin Wade explained why they never went down that route with him. While they did attempt a romantic arc for the Commissioner, they never found it wholly convincing. Check out his quote below:
We didn’t discuss it much. The bar would be pretty high to be able to make a good Frank Reagan police commissioner story out of him dating. We tried it a couple of times with some success, but it wasn’t an area we visited a lot. He didn’t have a romance with Det. Baker [Abigail Hawk], but if this was a 1940s comedy with Katharine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy or Cary Grant, Baker would be Gal Friday.
We called [Abigail Baker, Sid Gormley, and Garrett Moore] the Dream Team—but they were anything but… [Laughs] But they were a wonderful work family for him. So we didn’t give him a wife or a girlfriend but we gave him a blood family and a work family.
What Frank’s Lack Of A Relationship Meant For Blue Bloods
It Avoided A Well-Established Trope
Interestingly, Selleck has expressed his frustration that Frank was never especially flirtatious, as he always wanted to see that storyline in the show. While Frank wore his wedding ring throughout the seasons, that should not have precluded him from attempting to flirt with potential partners, even if it was never especially serious. Despite Selleck’s disappointment, avoiding that element meant subverting a typical procedural trope. Rather than having a romantic focus for every character, Frank was allowed to remain devoted to his late wife. He never felt the need to move on.