Gerry Turner Calls Marriage to Theresa Nist a ‘Monumental Mistake’ After Shocking Split md18

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“What made us go forward with the wedding? I think Theresa and I are of the same mind here,” he reflected to Fox News Digital.

“We had a lifetime of commitment to a marital partner. … We knew the importance of commitment. We knew the importance of setting an example for our kids and our grandkids. … We said, ‘We can get to know each other. We can iron out any areas where we don’t know each other well enough. We can make this work.’”

The marriage ended quietly during a private walk in California. They were in town for a function.

“We were trying one last time to see if we could reconcile our differences,” Turner said. “Finally, I just asked, ‘Do you think it’s time to call it quits?’ Her answer, without hesitation, was, ‘Yes, I think it’s time to call it off.’”

Turner later revealed he briefly had suicidal thoughts as he faced online criticism over the divorce.

“One night, while I was lying in bed and staring up at the ceiling, it all became too much, and for the briefest of moments, I thought about putting a gun to my head,” he wrote. “Just as quickly, though, I thought of Jenny and Angie. I could never do that to my daughters, but I don’t believe I truly wanted to kill myself. My suicidal thoughts were more an expression of my desire to disappear.”

Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner slams ex Theresa Nist and claims her goal was  to win reality show - NOT find love

“That was just a brief thought,” Turner clarified to Fox News Digital.

Months later, in December 2024, Turner revealed he had been diagnosed with a slow-growing bone marrow cancer. In the book, he claimed that Nist didn’t check in like some of the other contestants.

“I didn’t have any great expectations for Theresa or any of the other women when I shared what was going on with me, but to be that insignificant to someone I had married, albeit briefly, was very painful,” he wrote. “We no longer talk; we have no reason to.”

Today, Turner is feeling hopeful about his future — and love. In October, he announced his engagement to his new girlfriend, Lana Sutton. He popped the question 15 months after his divorce was finalized.

“I think there is a certain amount of resiliency that I have,” he said, looking back at the “dark period” in his life following the divorce.

“I refer to it as my marathon mentality, that you can endure anything for a certain period of time. And then, once that enduring of pain or unhappiness is over, it’s time to pick yourself up, put your big boy pants on and move on with life. And that’s what it was. I just had to shift gears.”

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